In graceful withdrawal from conflict, you protect yourself from humiliation -- and from the enduring enmity of others. Furthermore, you deprive the opposition of an enemy to confront, which in itself can be a very successful strategic move. Graceful, friendly retreat in a heated atmosphere is a very difficult maneuver, however. It can only be achieved by those of superior character. So, rise to the occasion, friend; proper handling of a setback can be a great opportunity for progress in the long run.